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Left swipe

Saying no to a profile.

Left swipe on the shirtless mirror. She did not think twice.

Appsswipeapps

Like every photo

Liking a whole grid as a clumsy way to flirt.

He liked eight old photos. She noticed, and not in a good way.

Sociallikessocial

Link up

Meet up, often casual and often sexual.

"Let's link" with no place and no time is not a plan.

Slanglinkplans

Locked in

Fully committed, or fully focused on one person.

He is locked in. The apps are deleted.

Slanglocked-incommitment

Love bombing

Flooding someone with affection early so they attach before they really know you.

Pet names and future plans in the first week, then a cold week.

Behaviorlove-bombingred-flag

Love language

The way someone most easily feels cared for: time, words, touch, gifts, or help.

His love language is time. A gift does not land the same.

Relationshiplove-languagecare

Lurking

Watching someone online without interacting.

Lurking is not flirting. It is homework.

Sociallurkingsocial

Main

The primary person, when someone is seeing more than one.

She is the main. The others know they are not.

Slangmainroster

Match rate

How often your likes turn into matches.

His match rate was fine. His texts were the problem.

Appsmatch-rateapps

Meet the friends

The step where a new partner enters your real social life.

Meeting the friends is a harder launch than a photo.

Datingfriendscommitment

Metamour

Your partner's other partner, in non-monogamy.

She has not met her metamour yet. They are fine with that.

Relationshipmetamourpoly

Micro-cheating

Small betrayals that are not sex and still break the agreement: secret flirting, hidden chats.

He hid the chat and said it was nothing because they had not met.

Behaviormicro-cheatingtrust

Mirror selfie

A bathroom photo. Common, and easy to overuse.

One mirror selfie is a photo. Four is a theme.

Appsselfieapps

Monkey branching

Starting the next relationship before you have ended the current one.

He lined up the new girl while he was still living with the old one.

Behaviormonkey-branchingcheating

Mosting

Acting like the most interested person in the room, then dropping them.

He planned the weekend, then unmatched on Monday.

Behaviormostingmixed-signals

Multi-dating

Seeing more than one person before you agree to be exclusive.

She was multi-dating and she said so. That was the green part.

Datingmulti-datinghonesty

Negging

A disguised insult meant to make someone seek your approval.

"You are pretty cute for a girl who dresses like that."

Behaviorneggingmanipulation

Netflix and chill

An invitation to come over that is really about hooking up.

The show is on. Nobody is watching it.

Slangnetflixhookup

No contact

Stopping communication after a breakup so you can actually detach.

No contact meant no story views either.

Relationshipno-contactbreakup

Non-negotiable

A standard you will not trade away for chemistry.

Kids were non-negotiable. The charm did not edit that.

Relationshipstandardsvalues

Nonchalant

Acting unbothered, sometimes so hard that interest never lands.

She was so nonchalant he thought she was not interested.

Slangnonchalantvibe

NRE

New relationship energy: the intense early high with someone new.

NRE makes week three feel like a verdict. It is not.

Relationshipnrepoly

NSA

No strings attached: sex without an expectation of a relationship.

Say it out loud before clothes come off, not after.

Relationshipnsacasual

Number two

The backup behind the person someone actually prioritizes.

He treats her like number two and wonders why she is cold.

Slangbackuproster

Official

You have agreed on the relationship out loud.

It became official when they both said it, not when the photo posted.

Relationshipofficiallabels

On a break

A pause that is usually a breakup neither person will name.

They were on a break. He was also on the apps.

Relationshipbreakbreakup

One-itis

Fixating on one person so hard you ignore every other sign and option.

She has not replied in two weeks and he has stopped going out.

Slangone-itisfixation

One-word reply

Answering with a single word so the chat cannot grow.

"Ok." "Bet." "Word." The conversation is dead.

Textingone-wordtexting

Open relationship

A couple that allows sex or dating outside the pair, under rules they set.

They are open. New people get told that on date one.

Relationshipopennon-monogamy

Opening line

The first message on an app. It has to use something on their profile.

The opening line quoted her prompt. That is why she answered.

Appsopenerapps

Orbiting

Watching stories and liking posts after you stopped talking, without sending a message.

He has not replied in a month, but he watches every story.

Behaviororbitingsocial

Paperclipping

Sending a boring ping like "hey" after a long silence, just to see if you still respond.

No apology. Just "you up" after six weeks.

Behaviorpaperclippingtexting

Paragraph

A long text, often an apology or a confession.

He sent a paragraph. She wanted a plan.

Textingparagraphtexting

PDA

Public display of affection.

Their PDA is hand-holding. That is the whole show.

Datingpdapublic

Pick me

Performing "I am not like other people" to win approval from a crush.

The pick-me speech was about how she hates drama and only likes his hobbies.

Slangpick-meapproval

Pink flag

A cute quirk people pretend is a warning and is mostly affection.

He names his plants. She called it a pink flag.

Slangpink-flagflags

Pocketing

Keeping someone out of your real life: no friends, no photos, no plans in public.

They only meet at his place, never around anyone he knows.

Behaviorpocketingsecrecy

Polyamory

Having more than one romantic relationship with everyone's knowledge.

She has two partners. Both of them know.

Relationshippolynon-monogamy

Princess treatment

Being looked after with care and effort, used both sincerely and as a joke.

She wanted princess treatment. He thought that meant a ride home.

Slangprincess-treatmenteffort

Private story

A story only some people can see. Sometimes where the real dating life is.

She was on his private story and nowhere on the grid.

Socialprivate-storysocial

Profile audit

Looking over your own profile like a stranger would.

The profile audit cut the group photo where you cannot tell who he is.

Appsprofileapps

Prompt

The written answer on a dating profile that gives you something real to reply to.

He ignored the photos and replied to the prompt about her dog.

Appspromptapps

Protest behavior

Acting out so someone will come closer: picking a fight, going cold, testing them.

The silent treatment was protest behavior, not peace.

Relationshipprotestattachment

Provider

Someone who pays and plans, sometimes used as the whole definition of a good partner.

Provider is a role. It is not a substitute for kindness.

Slangprovidermoney

Pulled up

Showed up in person, often spontaneously.

He said he was nearby and pulled up. She had not agreed to that.

Slangpull-upplans

Read receipt

The mark that shows a message was opened.

He turned read receipts off so silence would look unfinished.

Textingread-receipttexting

Rebound

The person or relationship you grab to stop feeling a breakup.

The rebound was kind. It was still a rebound.

Relationshipreboundbreakup

Red flag

A warning that this person may be disrespectful, dishonest, or unsafe.

He mocked her job on the first drink and called it a joke.

Slangred-flagflags