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Rematch

Matching again with someone you had unmatched.

They rematched. The first chat had already failed.

Appsrematchapps

Rent free

Living in your head when you wish they would not.

He is in her head rent free. She hates that.

Slangrent-freecrush

Right swipe

Saying yes to a profile.

Right swipe is interest. It is not a date.

Appsswipeapps

Rizz

Ease and charm that make flirting feel natural instead of forced.

She did not use a line. She just had rizz.

Slangrizzflirting

Rizzler

Someone known for rizz. Often said as a joke.

He called himself a rizzler. The table did not agree.

Slangrizzflirting

Rizzless

Without charm. The flirt is not landing.

The line was rizzless. She smiled anyway and changed the subject.

Slangrizzflirting

Roaching

Dating several people and hiding it until someone finds out.

She said she was single. The group chat said otherwise.

Behaviorroachinghonesty

Rose

Hinge's limited like for someone you especially want to meet.

She used a rose. He still had to be interesting.

Appsrosehinge

Roster

The group of people someone is dating or sleeping with at the same time.

She is not exclusive. The roster is three deep.

Slangrostercasual

Safeword

A word that means stop, used when ordinary "stop" might be unclear.

They picked a safeword before they tried anything new.

Relationshipsafewordconsent

Secure attachment

Being able to want someone and still stay steady when they need space.

She can miss him without punishing him for a late text.

Relationshipsecureattachment

Seeing each other

Dating, said softly so it does not sound official.

They are seeing each other. The friends already know.

Relationshipdatinglabels

Serial monogamist

Someone who moves from one exclusive relationship straight into the next.

He is a serial monogamist. The gap between girlfriends was nine days.

Relationshipmonogamypattern

Shoot your shot

Actually say you are interested, instead of hinting forever.

She shot her shot in the parking lot. He said yes.

Slangshotapproach

Shot missed

You had an opening and did not take it.

She waited by the door. Shot missed.

Slangshotapproach

Side piece

A person someone sleeps with while committed to someone else.

He called her a side piece. She left.

Slangsidecheating

Simp

Someone who over-invests in a person who is not investing back.

He pays for everything and she will not even make a plan.

Slangsimpeffort

Situationship

More than a hookup and less than a relationship, with no agreed label.

They spend weekends together and still say they are not dating.

Relationshipsituationshipundefined

Situationship blues

The low feeling of being half-chosen for too long.

Situationship blues is crying over someone who will not use the word girlfriend.

Slangsituationshipfeelings

Slide into DMs

Start a private message with someone you are not already talking to.

He slid into her DMs about the photo. She answered.

Textingdmstexting

Slow dating

Taking fewer dates and more time, on purpose.

Slow dating meant one person at a time, not one text at a time.

Datingpacedating

Slow fade

Letting contact die gradually instead of saying you are done.

Replies get shorter, plans get vaguer, then it is quiet.

Behaviorslow-fadebreakup

Snap streak

A count of days two people have snapped each other. Easy to confuse with interest.

The streak is at 200. They have not had a real conversation.

Socialstreaksnapchat

Sneaky link

A secret casual partner you do not introduce to anyone.

They only see each other after midnight and never in daylight.

Slangsneaky-linkcasual

Soft girl

A style and mood of being openly feminine, gentle, and cared for.

Soft girl era for her means slower mornings and clearer standards.

Slangsoft-girlstyle

Soft launch

Hinting at a new person online without posting them clearly.

A hand in the frame, no face, no name.

Socialsoft-launchinstagram

Soft launch era

A stretch of hinting at a person online before you are ready to name them.

Soft launch era lasted a month. Then came the hard launch.

Socialsoft-launchinstagram

Standout

A featured profile on Hinge that gets more attention.

Standout does not fix a blank prompt.

Appsstandouthinge

Stashing

Hiding a partner the way you hide something you are not proud of.

She has met no one in his life after four months.

Behaviorstashingsecrecy

Stonewalling

Shutting down and refusing to talk during conflict.

He stared at the wall until she stopped asking.

Behaviorstonewallingconflict

Story

A temporary post. Where a lot of soft launches happen.

The story had his sleeve. The grid stayed single.

Socialstoryinstagram

Story reply

Answering someone's story as a way to start talking.

The story reply was the whole opener. It worked.

Textingstorytexting

Submarining

Disappearing, then resurfacing later with no mention of the gap.

He texts in March like December did not happen.

Behaviorsubmariningghosting

Super like

A paid or limited signal on a dating app that says you are especially interested.

She super liked him. He still had to say something human.

Appssuper-likeapps

Swipe fatigue

Burnout from judging endless profiles.

He closed the app after twenty minutes of nothing.

Appsswipeapps

Talking stage

The stretch of flirting and dates before anyone agrees on a label.

They have been "talking" since June and still will not say what it is.

Relationshiptalking-stageundefined

Textationship

A bond that lives in the phone and never becomes time together.

They text all day and have not been in the same room in a month.

Relationshiptextationshiptexting

The ick

A sudden turn-off that makes attraction drop, sometimes over something small.

He baby-talked the waiter and the ick arrived immediately.

Slangickturn-off

Third date

The old idea that sex waits until date three. Mostly a script, not a rule.

They slept together on date one and still went to date three.

Datingthird-datepace

Thirst trap

A photo or clip posted to get sexual attention.

The caption is casual. The angle is not.

Socialthirst-trapsocial

Tinder

The swipe dating app most people mean when they say "the apps."

Tinder is where he says he is "just looking."

Appstinderapps

Trauma dumping

Unloading heavy history on someone who did not agree to hold it.

First coffee, and he narrated his entire divorce.

Behaviortrauma-dumppace

Typing bubble

The indicator that someone is writing. Famous for appearing and vanishing.

The typing bubble came and went three times. No message.

Textingtypingtexting

U up

A late text that is usually asking for sex, not a conversation.

"U up" at 1 a.m. is not a check-in.

Textingu-uptexting

Uncuffing

Ending the winter relationship once the weather turns.

Uncuffing season is real. March told on them.

Slanguncuffingbreakup

Unicorn

A bisexual woman a couple tries to date together. Often a loaded ask.

They wanted a unicorn. She wanted to be a person, not a prop.

Relationshipunicornpoly

Unmatch

Removing a match on a dating app so the chat disappears.

She unmatched after he sent the paragraph.

Appsunmatchapps

Unspoken rizz

Charm that shows up without a rehearsed line.

Unspoken rizz is eye contact and a question, then waiting.

Slangrizzflirting
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